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【證嚴上人開示】
前面說過三毒根,分為從意地起,或是肢體動作。
意地就是貪瞋癡,發自內心,身口就共為七支去造作。口四、身三啊,我們如果心意沒有調控好,很容易就會惡口、妄言、綺語、兩舌,這是很容易犯的。
身口七支之惡業
身三業:殺、盜、淫
口四業:惡口、妄語、綺語、兩舌

開口動舌無不是在造業,有時無意中的一句話,本來遇上了什麼煩惱,有了很多因緣,解開了這個煩惱,但是無意中又聽到一句話,又把過去那些煩惱再搬回來。對人、對事、對物等等…,又在那裡不斷醞釀著煩惱,愈來愈產生得愈大,一直到他的道心退、道根斷。有時說起來,是這麼小的一件事,輕輕的一句話,就能斷人道根、退人道業。
各位,說話是不是要很小心呢?所以,我們如果能用心,我們的口業就要很謹慎;如果不用心,口業習慣了,哪怕是無意中,無形中,也會造成很大的錯誤。所以說來,口的四的四業是最容易犯的,所以我們說話真的要很小心。
犯口四過
不但損福失德
心中亦難與道相應
時時觀照心念
收攝口業
能讓心保持正念及清淨

為什麼有的道場要禁語?禁語就是在訓練你,看到事情不要那麼衝動。看到、聽到,話就馬上出來了。聽到話的時候,你要用心,不要回答,禁語,好好去思考這些話,是「是」或是「非」。從人家口中說出來的話,我們以十分冷靜的心,訓練冷靜的心去分辨是或非,這也是修行的一個法門。
看到人家的動作、看到人家的形態,如果要訓練我們的心,要有耐心,耐心去看、用心去看,耐心地聽、用心地聽,是對的?是錯的?耐得住氣,不會一下子話就說出來了。話如果一下子就說出去,剎那之間那句話,收不回來,就很懊惱了。所以,有的道場叫人要禁語。
打佛七,多念佛、少說話,這也就是要訓練我們的口。同時也在訓練我們的心,看看你在聽話的時候,會不會衝動?看看你,看到不喜歡的人,會生氣嗎?試驗自己的心看看。禁語就是要讓你冷靜下來,好好地思考,聽到這句話,我會不會衝口而出?我們要訓練自己什麼樣的感受,不要一有感受就開始情緒化。一情緒化,話就說出去了,不顧後果就說出去。
說話一定要負責後果,所以每一部佛經,(開頭)都是「如是我聞」,那就是阿難在負責,是我阿難所聽到的,佛陀在某一個地方,和某人所說的話。這也是叫做有責任、負責。何況我們學佛,說話一定要負責任,不要動不動,無意中話就說出去。
其實我們都常常聽到人家說:「我也沒有什麼用意,我只是這樣說而已,他怎麼常常放在心裡?」你看,就是因為他常常放在心裡,所以放在心裡的這句話,就叫做毒。你無意而說出去,但是這句話出去,就變成口吐毒言。
我們現在常常聽到,孩子在說《靜思語》,「說好話,如口吐蓮花。說壞話,就如口吐毒蛇。」毒蛇就是毒、就是惡,所以一句話輕輕地說,卻是有毒、有惡。我們不覺得自己有還是沒有,有意還是無意,但是在別人心中就已經有了。
所以口業有四項:惡口、妄言、綺語、兩舌。我們要很注意。
身體的殺、盜、淫,這也是從意業起。看看意業如果貪於色欲,不論心如何想、如何想,其實罪業是身體造出來的。多少人的家庭、多少人生,不就是為了淫欲而造成!
有的家庭,你看就是一定要結婚,結婚了卻有遺傳疾病。我們在報紙上常常看到,那種遺傳性疾病,僵直性脊椎炎,這也是一樣會遺傳。或是精神疾病,有些也會遺傳。現在的遺傳學,有很多家族性的遺傳,很多。但是明明知道身體有疾病,但是他還是結婚,這就是眾生的業。也知道這會遺傳,但是結婚了。
老榮民來到台灣,年紀大了想要傳宗接代,看看有多少都去娶低能或是有精神疾病的,這樣娶過來,結果生下來的孩子,也一樣(遺傳)。
在我們的關懷戶當中,在壽豐那邊,有一群都是退伍軍人,政府給他們土地耕作。退伍之後,讓他們有土地耕作,其實退伍下來已經老了,給他們的土地,都差不多是新生地,就是溪邊很不好的土地,就讓他們到那裡,一個人五分地,讓他們去耕作。
但是那時候他們的想法,退伍下來自己一個人無聊,再來,年齡一年一年大了,有這片土地,如果能再有妻、有兒,以後老了有人照顧。再來,將來這塊土地,可以再讓他們耕耘。
所以退休下來的一點點錢,就叫人去找便宜的,或是父母覺得我已經老了,我如果幫她找一個對象嫁出去,這樣家裡不用再多照顧一個。就是有這兩種,一方面,有的父母很想把她嫁出去,另一方面覺得,我一定要娶一個來傳宗接代。雖然腦筋不好,不要緊,反正在鄉下,反正有這片土地,可以傻傻地吃、傻傻地做,能夠生孩子就好。所以不少人,就娶了這樣的太太。
後來有一位太太,連自己已經足月了,要生孩子也不知道,每天都在外面閒逛。忽然間在路上孩子生下來了,她也不知道這樣叫做生孩子。被人看到趕快通報,才趕緊去把她帶回來,臍帶還連著。就這樣一直生,生了兩、三個,孩子傻傻的也很不正常。太太一天到晚都在外面閒晃,這位老榮民無法耕作,揹、抱、牽(孩子),就是跟著太太到處跑。這是我們那時候去看的個案,也是列入我們的個案,後來我們才把這個太太,送到玉里的養護所。
然後看到他帶著孩子。每次我們在發放的時候,就看到有揹著的,有推著車子的,又牽著一個,這個個案,我們一直照顧道孩子讀書,這個案子也延續很久。類似這樣的案件,在我們救濟的個案中實在很多。這就是人心的欲念,這種色欲、淫欲難斷。
有的家庭,如果能每個人安分守己,這樣還好。有的人已經有太太了,女人紅杏出牆,男人婚外有情。
有一篇新聞,本來是一個很幸福的家庭,只有一個獨生子,這個孩子本來也很乖,讀書都在二、三名之前,但是不知道為什麼,這個先生遇到了,未結婚前的舊情人,就此開始變心了,開始和過去的舊情人來往。這個消息被他的太太聽到,太太知道了,也用報復的心,你能有外遇,我也不一定要守在家裏。所以她也紅杏出牆了。
這件事情已經發生了,也造成了家庭的不幸。但是他們兩個人有孩子了,對這個孩子兩個人都很愛,要怎麼辦?為了這個孩子,所以兩個人各人走各人的路,但是要守住這個家庭。不過,心已經不同心了,所以每天吵架,每天吵、每天鬧。
孩子有時候,一回來就聽到父母在吵架、對罵、摔東西等等,這個孩子開始就會對父母親說:「你們能不能不要這樣吵?」開始的時候用嘴巴說,再來就把房門關起來,讓父母在外面去鬧、摔東西。
後來,變本加厲,這個孩子,有一天忽然衝出去外面,跟他的父母說:「你們都給我閉嘴。」孩子突然間有這個形態,忽然間發作,以兇惡的聲色吼他的父母:「給我閉嘴。」所以父母親突然間嚇到,兩個人真的都閉上嘴。
他接下來又跟他的父母說:「給我站好不准動,你們給我罰站!你們如果不站好,我就死給你們看。」父母真的閉上嘴,兩個人就在那裡罰站。「不能動,你們如果動,我就死給你們看!」這是第一次,生效了,這個孩子覺得有效。
有時候又聽到了,這個孩子關在房間裡,一直到半夜父母都去睡了,他自己睡不著。會突然間起來,把他的父母叫起來:「你們兩個起來。」兩個人就要乖乖起來,什麼事啊?給我在那裡罰站。父母晚上不能睡,在那裡罰站。像這樣頻率愈來愈高,孩子如果看到父母動了,就在那裡大叫、摔東西。
隔壁的鄰居,因為現在都是公寓,實在是對這個家庭忍無可忍,所以報警了。警察認為這個孩子有精神病,把他送到一家精神病院。精神病院的醫師,一直和孩子對談,不斷觀察他、做檢查。後來醫師又找他的父母來對談,結果發現有精神病的不是孩子。
因為孩子是在青少年的反抗期,不是真的精神病,是青少年反抗期的暴力心態,所以有這樣的行動。但是真的有精神病的,是他的媽媽已經,每天這樣被孩子罰站,加上先生的外遇,尤其是自己紅杏出牆等等,這個媽媽已經是憂鬱症,而且是很嚴重的憂鬱症。
看,這種本來是一個,平平安安的家庭,心沒有照顧好,多可怕啊!
人生的幸與不幸
取決於心念的趨向
一念心善諸惡除滅
一念心惡眾善亦滅

所以,心是一切罪惡的根,無明、煩惱就是意地,最毒的東西。
所以大家日常學佛,生活中我們要多多注意,不要和心地、意地的毒根,常常連在一起。若是這樣,我們的生活,口、身絕對會犯錯。
所以請大家時時要多用心。
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Lecturer: Master Zheng-Yan
Subject: Good Thoughts Can Eliminate All Evil; Evil Thoughts Can Eliminate All Good (心善諸惡滅 心惡善亦滅)

Previously we discussed the Three Poisons. They arise from thoughts and lead to physical actions. Thoughts of greed, anger and ignorance emerge from our minds. Then we create the Seven Branches, 4 of speech, 3 of body. If we do not discipline our minds, we will easily speak harshly, lie, flatter and gossip. These transgressions are easily committed.

The Negative Karma of the Seven Branches.
Body: killing, stealing, sexual misconduct.
Speech: Harsh words, lies, flattery, gossip
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Every time we speak we create karma, even if it is just a casual remark. We might have encountered afflictions which, with the help of circumstances, we were able to resolve. But when we hear something in passing, it stirs up those afflictions again. As we interact with people and things, we continuously incubate those afflictions, so they grow worse, until they weaken or destroy our will to practice.

Sometimes a very small matter, a casual remark, can stop or impair someone’s spiritual practice. So shouldn’t we be careful with what we say? We must be more mindful and speak cautiously. If we are not mindful and are used to creating karma with speech, we may unwittingly cause serious problems. Thus, it is easiest to create negative karma with speech. So we must really pay attention when we speak.

When we commit the four wrongs of speech, not only do we damage blessings & lose virtue, it is hard for the mind to resonate with practice. If we constantly observe our thoughts and restrain our speech, then our minds will be filled with right thoughts and purity.

Why do certain monasteries forbid speech? That practice trains us not to respond so impulsively. Typically we react immediately to what we see or hear. When we hear something, we must be mindful instead of responding, remain silent and carefully contemplate the validity of what we hear. When we hear what others say, we must remain levelheaded and calmly analyze the effects of these words. This is a method of spiritual practice.

When we see others behavior or demeanor, we need to train our minds; we must be patient. We must patiently, mindfully observe. We must patiently, mindfully listen. Whether it is right or wrong, we should be patient. Then we will not respond impulsively. If we react too quickly, we can never take those words back and we may regret it deeply. Therefore some monasteries forbid speech during seven-day retreats, so the focus is on chanting, not speaking. This trains our speech as well as our minds. Do we react impulsively when we listen to others? Do we get angry when we see someone we dislike? Let us examine our minds. Observing silence teaches us to calm down and contemplate whether we may respond impulsively when we hear such things. We must train ourselves to not immediately react and speak out under the influence of our emotions. When we are emotional, we speak with no regard to consequences.

We must be responsible for what we say. For instance, every sutra begins with. “Thus have I heard.” This is Ananda taking responsibility and saying, “This is what I, Ananda, have heard Buddha say at such-and-such a place to such-and-such a person.” This is taking responsibility. Since we are learning Buddhism, we must speak responsibly. We cannot speak impulsively and unintentionally. We often hear others say things like, “I didn’t mean anything by it. It was just something I said. Why did he take it so seriously?” See, these words remain in another person’s heart and become poisonous. You may have said it without any ill intention, but once they left your mouth, those words became poison.

Nowadays, we often hear children recite “Jing Si Aphorisms” such as, “Good words are like lotus flowers. Bad words are like poisonous snakes.” Poisonous snakes symbolize toxins and evil. Sometimes even a word spoken lightly can be very evil and poisonous. We may not mean anything by those words, we may say them intentionally or unintentionally, but others will apply meaning to them. So, we create karma with 4 kinds of speech: harsh words, lies, flattery and gossip.

We must be very careful of the actions of killing, stealing & sexual misconduct, which also originate from our thoughts. If we have lustful thoughts, no matter what those thoughts are, it is the body that creates the wrongdoing. Many families and lives are shaped by lust and desire. Some people insist on getting married despite a history of genetic diseases. We often read about hereditary diseases, such as Ankylosing Spondylitis, which causes inflammation of the spine. Some mental disorders are also hereditary. Today’s studies of genetics have discovered many hereditary diseases. Some people know that they have these illnesses, but they still get married. This is the karma of sentient beings. People know these diseases are hereditary, yet they still get married.

Old veterans who moved to Taiwan from China, wished to have children to pass on the family name. So many of them married women who were mentally challenged or mentally ill. As a result, their children inherited those disorders. Among the families we care for is a group of retired veterans near Shoufeng. The government provided them with farm land after they retired from the military. But they were pretty old when they retired and the land given to them was mostly newly reclaimed land near the river bank that was not ideal for farming. The government gave them each some of this land to farm.

However, the veterans felt that living alone after they retired was boring, and they were also getting old. Now that they had land, they wished to marry and have children, so someone would take care of them in their old age and also farm their land. With meager retirement benefits, they asked people to find them someone poor or someone whose parents were eager to marry her off, and thus have one less mouth to feed.

The arrangement worked for both sides. On one side, the parents wanted to marry off the daughter. On the other, the veterans wanted someone to bear their children and continue the family name. They did not mind if the woman was mentally challenged. Since they lived in a rural area and had land, as long as she could eat, work and bear children that was good enough. Thus, many veterans married mentally-challenged women.

There was one mother who did not even realize that she was about to give birth. She was wandering in the streets when she suddenly went into labor and gave birth. She did not understand what was happening. When others saw her, they quickly told her husband and immediately brought her home with the baby’s umbilical cord still uncut. She ended up having 2 or 3 children. The children were also mentally challenged. The wife wandered in the streets all the time and her husband could not farm, because he was continuously chasing after his wife with the children on his back or in his arms.

This was one case we encountered. We began caring for them. Eventually, we sent the wife to a home for the mentally challenged in Yuli. Later, whenever we distributed aid, we saw him with his children. He carried one on his back, pushed one in a cart and held another by the hand. We continued to help them until the children went to school. We cared for them for quite a long time. There are many similar stories among our charity cases.

This is all due to desires of the mind. Sexual desire and lust are difficult to cut off. If everyone in the family behaves themselves, the family is fine. But some married people have affairs. Sometimes the wife cheats, sometimes the husband cheats.

There was a news article about a once-happy family. The couple had only one child. This child used to be well-behaved and was among the top three in his class. But then somehow the husband encountered a farmer girlfriend from his bachelor days and old feelings were renewed. He started an affair with her. When his wife learned of this, she was very angry and wanted revenge. She thought, “Since you’re having an affair, I can do the same.” So she also got involved with another man. Thus their married fell apart. However, they had a child they both loved dearly. What could they do? For his sake and to keep the family intact, they led separate lives under the same roof. However, they no longer loved each other, so they argued and fought every day. Whenever the child returned from school, he could hear his parents arguing, yelling and throwing things, etc.

In the beginning, the child told them, “Can’t you stop fighting like this?” At first, he would ask them. Later, he would just lock himself in his room while the parents fought and threw things outside. Then things got worse. One day, he suddenly rushed out of his room and shouted at his parents, “I want both of you shut up!” The sudden change in their son’s attitude, when he angrily yelled at them and told them to shut up, completely stunned them. They actually stopped arguing. The child then said to his parents, “Stand there and don’t move. Both of you stand still. If you don’t, I will kill myself front of you.” The parents stayed silent and stood there. “Don’t move! I will kill myself in front of you.” That was the first time he said that, and it worked. So the child thought it was effective.

Sometimes, when he heard them fight, he would lock himself in his room. In the middle of the night, after his parents went to bed, he could not fall asleep. So he would get out of bed and wake his parents. “Get up, the two of you.” The parents obediently woke up and asked, “What’s wrong?” “Stand there as punishment.” So the parents had to stand up all night and could not go to bed. This started happening more and more often. If the child saw his parents move, he yelled and threw things.

Because they lived in an apartment, the neighbors could no longer tolerate this family. So they called the police. The police thought the child might be mentally ill so they sent him to a psychiatric hospital. There, a psychiatrist talked to the child, observed his behavior and tested him.

Then the psychiatrist talked to his parents. He concluded that the child was not mentally ill. He was going through a rebellious phase; he did not have a mental illness. His violent behavior was a form of teenage rebellion. It was the mother who was actually mentally ill. Every day, she was being tormented by her child and had to deal with her husband’s infidelity and her own affair, etc. So she had developed a severe case of depression.

You see, this was once a very peaceful family. But they did not take care of their minds. the results are really frightening!

Good and bad fortune in life is determined by the inclination of our thoughts. A good thought can eliminate all evil. An evil thought can eliminate all good.

Hence, the mind is the root of all evils. Ignorance and afflictions are the most toxic things. In our daily practice of Buddhism we must pay careful attention, so as not to allow the poisonous roots in our minds to become entangled. If this happens, we will definitely speak and act wrongly in our lives. So everyone, please always be mindful.
(Source: Da Ai TV 靜思晨語 法譬如水)
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