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【證嚴上人開示】
九結:
愛結 恚結 慢結
無明結 見結 取結
疑結 嫉結 慳結

這幾天就是講「結」,心打結了。心有幾種的結?前面已經說過兩種結,一個是愛欲的結,一個是容易恚怒的結。
那麼今天要說的,就是「慢」,這種傲慢的心態,這也令我們很痛苦。若是有這個「慢」,做人絕對不會圓,做人既不圓,做事哪能圓?當然一切都無法,看到圓滿的道理,所以這就是「慢」。
為什麼呢?佛陀這樣告訴我們:「因驕傲不遜而做。」這種慢就是驕、傲,有的人叫做「驕慢」,有的人叫做「我慢」、「傲慢」,「慢」有很多。這個慢字出頭,就是對我們的人格真的都有損,所以,這就是一個心理問題。
「慢」有幾種慢?「慢」有七種的慢。我們看,就是謂諸眾生為慢。
七慢:
1慢 2過慢
3慢過慢 4我慢
5增上慢 6下劣慢
7邪慢
總共七個

因為我們的心裡在人事物中,在我們的心中,差不多會有這些慢生起,所以我們要常常很小心。有了這些慢的其中一慢,就「廣行不善,由此遂招未來生死之苦。」
六道本是苦,這些六道的苦的牽連,是從哪裡來的呢?這也是一條線之一,也是一個纏,讓我們糾纏入六道生死,不得自在的苦,所以「流轉三界不能出離」。
心中七慢生起
廣行不善
將招致未來生死之苦
流轉三界不能出離
是名慢結

「慢」光是一個慢,人的「慢」就是有,第一類叫做「同類相傲」。人與人,人類,人與人之間,覺得你是你,我是我,你和我有什麼關係?所以常常對人都很冷漠,讓人看了覺得這個人,很有驕氣、慢氣,好像高高在上,讓人不可親近,這就叫做「慢」。
第二叫做「過慢」。過,什麼叫做「過慢」?覺得我超過你,本來其實我們的能力都差不多,你做的和我做的都差不多,但是他要說:「哪有!是我比他好!我比他行,我比他能幹。」所以明明就是差不多,他就是要超過人。這種的慢,對自己的估計,都要估計得比別人高,這叫做「過慢」。
「相似法中,執己為勝」,我們在做的事情,都是這樣差不多,但是自己覺得我比他行。這也很痛苦。
第三慢,就是「慢過慢」。心中已經有一個慢,已經很痛苦了,但是他又「過慢」,慢中還再加慢,這叫做「慢過慢」。「他本勝己,強謂勝他也。」別人真的比我們行,不只是平平而已,人家真的比我們行、比我們好,但是他要說:「才沒有,他跟我差不了多少。」
這種自己驕傲,別人已經勝過我們了,我們還覺得差不了多少;不只是差不了多少,我還比他行。明明比起來就和人差很多,他還要超過人,這就是叫做「慢過慢」。這實在是很苦不堪言!
第四是「我慢」,都只執著一個我、我、我,什麼事我都是對的,什麼道理我說的就是對的。我講,你去做就對了;你做了,做對都是我,做不對不是我。這種很傲慢自大,這叫做「我慢」。
所以「勢己凌他」,自己膨脹得很大,只會欺負別人。這種膨脹,損害自己很大,他自己會很孤單,會很孤立,這也是很痛苦。
再來,第五就是「增上慢」。慢,「未得之法,自謂已得。」這在《法華經》中,佛陀就是鞭策這種人:「未得謂得。」這是在很多慢之中,最壞的慢。所以「增上慢」就是未得謂得。其實你只是聽到一知半解,你就說你都知道了,你都知道了。
不論在人類、社會,我們做事,不肯縮小自己,不肯虛心求教,只是聽到什麼,他什麼都不明白,不過,他自己一直說:「我什麼都知道。」這就是我們平常說的:「你很逞能。」
對啊!假而不實,自我膨脹,膨脹了自己,這樣叫做「增上慢」。
再來就是「下劣慢」,這種「下劣慢」也是很苦。自己知道我跟不上,我沒辦法,不過,他不認輸,他不肯說,我沒有辦法,他不肯說,我能力不夠,不肯這麼說,反而,厲害是你們厲害,和我有什麼關係?」那種下劣,沒有那個功能,沒有那個能力,但是他還是一樣有那種「慢」。
所以,他這種「自矜誇」的心態,真的也是很辛苦。「是我不學,不是我學不會;是我不做,不是我做不到。那種沒什麼,我這種人才去做那種事嗎?」這都叫做「下劣慢」。
自己做不到,以為他的人才比這個好,所以不肯去學,不肯去虛心求教。學不會,他就說,他不想學,他的人才不是這種才,他自己這麼想。有的人說眼高手低,就是這類的「人才」。
再來,就是「邪慢」。「邪慢」也很苦,這種「執著邪見,凌慢他人」。這種的邪,明明是不對的道理,他偏要說他對;這種一直就只會欺負別人,卻不知道他的道理錯了,他的方向錯了。這種的人生很苦,因為道理被他模糊掉了。
自己不論是做不出來,或是做不到,或是不肯做,他把這些事情反過來,說是別人的錯誤,這叫做「邪」,不正確,見解已經偏掉了。不正確,這叫做「邪慢」。
所以,佛陀這麼說:「執著邪見」,執著不正確的見解;只是要「凌慢他人」,凌就是去侮辱人,老是要對別人不利,說別人的錯誤,掀別人的短處,這種要壓制人,這都叫做「凌慢他人」,凌辱人。自己的見解很錯誤,但是,就是要凌辱別人,這也是很痛苦!
慢者 :同類相傲
過慢者 :相似法中 執己為勝
慢過慢者 :他本勝己 強謂勝他
我慢者 :恃己凌他
增上慢者 :未得之法 自謂已得
下劣慢者 :己本無能 反自矜誇
邪慢者 :執著邪見 凌慢他人

看看,光是這個「慢」字,在我們人的心理毛病有多少?所以人生,這個結老是在糾糾結結,多苦啊!不能打開自己的心門,真的是這麼憋著,實在是解不開,又不能夠接受別人幫他解,這樣真是很痛苦。
不論是「邪慢」,或是「卑劣慢」,我們平常說「卑劣慢」,這裡說「下劣慢」,做不到,眼高手低這樣的人,還是有「慢」存在,這也是很痛苦。
學佛最怕的就是「增上慢」,這是佛陀在《法華經》中,已經這麼鞭策過,「增上慢」,這個增上慢,未得謂得,要改很困難。所以先入為主,以為我們自己,和佛陀差不多透徹,那是不對的。
「我慢」也錯了,不要自己很傲慢,老是要凌辱別人,這也不要。
「慢過慢」,常常以為自己比別人行,別人本來就比我們行,自己不承認別人行,這也是不對。
過慢也不對,就差不多、差不多,我們就承認人家的能力,和我們差不多就好了!何必非勝不可呢?
慢,同類,我們若常常不肯理人,人家也會永遠不理我們;我們若不去關心人,人家也不會來關心我們。
各位,師父常說:「合心、協力。」心要合起來,我們的力量才會大,我們若能合心來傳承,自然我們再和大家同做同受,這樣就是協力能動員,力量就大了。
我們對人與人之間、彼此之間,要和和氣氣,和氣,我們的心橋才鋪得起來。我們的心入人的心,人的心入我們的心,我們和人人的心交會在一起,你看,這樣的人生,多麼可愛的人生!
彼此的心能夠交會,你有錯,我讓你照鏡子,讓你看清楚你自己;我有錯,你當我的鏡子,讓我知道我哪裡有缺點,如此我們的人格才能圓。所以我們要能交心、會心,這一定要用和氣的方法,把這座拱橋鋪起來。然後,我們既然如此合心、如此和氣,當然我們過橋也還要走路,路比橋還要長,所以我們要互愛。未來的道路還很長,所以我們要有通路。
所以在《四十二章經》,還是有這句話:《四十二章經》,有一天「沙門」,就是說和佛陀一起修行,有一天他的比丘群,大家圍坐在佛陀的身邊,提起他的心要來求法,用他虔誠的心來求法,來請問佛陀:「何者為善?何者為大?」請教佛陀,什麼是最善的呢?什麼是最大、最重要的?
佛陀回答說:「行道守真者善,志與道合者大!」
各位,這句話你們用心聽,和我剛才所說的「合心、和氣、互愛、協力」是不是一樣?對啊!四法四門,是從這裡延伸出來的。什麼叫做善?
一個人做不了什麼事情,我們必定要會合很多人;要會合很多人,就是要鋪一條路。路若是鋪得長了,人多了,隊伍浩蕩長!我們常常知道:「天下的苦難偏多,教富濟貧、濟貧教富,就是一條道路。」所以走路,要從我們初發心,當時的那念心就是最真誠的心,這念真誠的心來為善。
這念善不是一個人能達成的,要有人協力,動員群眾,走在同一條道路,守於真誠的心。所以我常常說,人人從自己的內心,要「誠正信實」,守真、守誠、守信、守實。人人內心若能誠正信實,自然我們行於外是慈悲喜捨。人人都是這樣的心,人人共同一個目標,慈、悲、喜、捨,在這條道路上,那就是善。
再來「志與道合者大。」師父常常說有志一同。慈濟這個大團體,就是要號召很多人,同一個志願,所以大家一起,為天下苦難眾生付出。平常大家互相會道,我們的心都一樣,我們的志都一樣,我們的方法是不是要一樣?所以我們常常都在培訓、活動,活動之前,就先把我們的觀念、見解,先做一個規劃。這就是一個團體。
所以佛陀這樣告訴我們,「行道守真者善。」大家要記得,我們要走這條路要守真,守我們初發心當時的那念真心,這叫做「善」。
我們志與道合,我們的意志,我們的志願,若和我們要走的路是相合的,這就是大,這條康莊的大道就是菩薩道。我們若能常常守志奉道,那就是其道甚大。
佛陀的教育,我們要常常用心記住,所以請大家要多用心!
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Lecturer: Master Zheng-Yan
Subject: The Nine Bonds Part 3(九結三)

The Nine Bonds: Craving, Anger, Arrogance, Ignorance, View, Grasping, Doubt, Jealousy, Stinginess.

We have been speaking of Bonds of the mind. How many kinds are there? We have already spoken of two Bonds, the Bond of Craving and the Bond of Anger. Today we will discuss the Bond of Arrogance. Arrogance can also cause deep suffering.

If we are arrogant, our character is flawed. If we have character flaws, works that we do will not be perfect. Of course, that is the reason that we cannot see things as perfect. This is Arrogance.

The Buddha told us in this way, “Arrogance and rudeness create karma.” Arrogance can manifest as pride, conceit, pomposity, or self-importance. There are many kinds of Arrogance. Our character is damaged once we are arrogant. This is a matter of psychology.

How many kinds of Arrogance are there? Seven. We see that “all sentient beings have Arrogance,” and Excessive Arrogance, Severely Excessive Arrogance, Self-arrogance, Augmented Arrogance, Inferior Arrogance, and Deviant Arrogance.
These are the seven kinds of Arrogance.

When our minds are focused on the conflicts around people, matters and things, it is likely that these kinds of arrogance arise. Therefore, we should always be mindful. Once any one of these arises, we “commit a wide range of bad deeds and invite the suffering of future births and deaths.” The nature of the Six Realms is suffering. Where does this suffering come from? Our bad deeds form one of the threads, a part of the entanglement that binds us to transmigration in the Six Destinies and the pain of such confinement. So in the Sutras, this is the “cyclic existence in the Three Realms with no way out.”

Once the Seven Kinds of Arrogance arise, we commit a wide range of bad deeds, causing us to continually transmigrate in the Three Realms with no way out. That is the Bond of Arrogance.

The first is just “Arrogance.” People have Arrogance. This first kind is “being arrogant among equals.” In our interactions with people, when we view others as distinct and unrelated individuals, we feel that they are not our concern, so we become indifferent toward them. When people see us, they feel that this person is aloof, arrogant, and unapproachable. That is how Arrogance looks.

The second kind is Excessive Arrogance. What makes it excessive? A sense of superiority. Although two people have similar capabilities and accomplishments, one says, “No way! I’m better. I’m more capable, more accomplished.” Even though they are clearly equal, one feels superior. Excessive Arrogance leads one to always see oneself as better. One with Excessive Arrogance is “of equal ability yet insists on superiority”. If we do comparable work but consider ourselves superior, we suffer.

The third kind is Severely Excessive Arrogance. If we already have arrogance, we suffer. But if we have Excessive Arrogance, or arrogance on top of arrogance, that is Severely Excessive Arrogance: “one is of lesser ability yet asserts superiority”. In this case others are truly more capable. Their abilities are not equal.
Others are truly more capable, but one thinks, “No way. We’re about the same.” With this kind of arrogance, though others truly surpass us, we not only falsely assert equivalency, we think that we are better than them. Clearly others are better, yet we still insist on our superiority. Severely Excessive Arrogance causes suffering.

The fourth is Self-arrogance, where one is attached only to oneself. “Everything I do is right. My reasoning is always correct. Just do as I say. Whatever you do, if it’s right, it was my idea. If it’s wrong, it’s your fault.” This kind of arrogance and self-centeredness is called Self-arrogance. One “inflates oneself to oppress others”. One inflates one’s own ego to put down others. That self-inflation will be hurtful and isolating. One will then suffer tremendously.

The fifth is Augmented Arrogance, in which one. “Lays claim to unattained Dharma.” In the Lotus Sutra, The Buddha criticized people who claimed they had what they did not have. This is the worst kind of Arrogance. Augmented Arrogance leads one to make false claims. Even if one only has partial understanding, one claims to know it all. While working with others or within society, one refuses to be humble or ask for assistance with humility. Upon hearing something one does not comprehend, one claims full understanding. That is what we usually call showing off. Indeed! Using what is false to inflate one’s ego is called Augmented Arrogance.

Next is Inferior Arrogance, which is also painful. One knows one cannot keep up at all, but will not admit defeat. One refuses to admit that he lacks the means or the ability. Instead, one says, “Sure, you’re capable, so what?” Although one is less skillful and less capable, one still has Arrogance. This mentality can cause a lot of pain. Some say, “It’s not that I can’t learn it, not that I can’t do it; I just don’t want to. Why would I waste my talents on that?” They say that out of Inferior Arrogance. They are incapable but think they are above it, so they refuse to learn or ask for help. They cannot learn, so they feign disinterest. They convince themselves that something does not fit their particular talents. These people have great ambition but little talent.

Nest is Deviant Arrogance; it is also very taxing. One will “cling to deviant views and bully others.” Deviant views are obviously wrong, but one insists that he is right. So he continues to bully others, although his reasoning and direction are wrong. This kind of life is painful because one obscures the truth. When one cannot perform a task, whether because he is incapable or unwilling, he twists the facts and blames failure on others. That is a deviant and incorrect view. When one’s understanding has deviated and is incorrect, one possesses Deviant Arrogance.

Thus the Buddha said, “Clinging to Deviant Views,” or being attached to one’s incorrect views, one tends to “bully others,” which means to humiliate others. If one mistreats others, talks up their mistakes, and puts them down, then he is “bullying others,” humiliating them. If one is mistaken yet still seeks to insult others, one suffers deeply.

Arrogance: Being arrogant among equals; Excessive Arrogance: Asserting superiority among equals; Severely Excessive Arrogance: Asserting superiority while lesser; Self-arrogance: Inflating oneself, oppressing others. Augmented Arrogance: Laying claim to unattained Dharma; Inferior Arrogance: Being incapable yet boastful; Deviant Arrogance: Bullying others with deviant views.

Look at how many mental problems are caused by Arrogance alone. In this lifetime this Bond will keep entangling us. Such suffering! If we cannot open our minds, our thinking will stagnate. If we cannot unravel those Bonds, and others cannot help us, we will truly suffer. Whether Deviant Arrogance or Inferior Arrogance, we commonly talk about an “inferiority complex.” We are referring to people who have little talent but great ambition and arrogance.
This is all very painful. Augmented Arrogance is most damaging when learning Buddha’s teachings. In the Lotus Sutra, the Buddha told us that Augmented Arrogance, when people claim unattained Dharma, is difficult to correct. If we are entrenched in the belief that our understanding is comparable to Buddha’s, that is wrong. Self-arrogance is also wrong. Do not be arrogant and always humiliate others. Do not do this. As for Severely Excessive Arrogance, if we always think we are better than others and do not acknowledge it when, actually, they are better, that is also wrong. Excessive Arrogance is also wrong if we are about the same, we should just recognize that others’ abilities are equal; why must we always be better? If we are arrogant and ignore others, they will ignore us, too. If we do not care about others, they will not care about us, either.

Everyone, we must work in Unity with Concerted Effort. When we put our minds together, we have great strength. If we can be united under the same goal, work hard together and share this experience, then we can mobilize everyone and amplify our strength. When we interact with others, we should try to foster harmony. With harmony, we can bridge the gap between us and enter into each other’s hearts. If our minds can meet this way, we can lead such an endearing life. With a meeting of our minds, I can be a mirror for your fault, so you can see yourself clearly. If I have fault, you can be my mirror, so I can see my flaws. Thus our characters can be perfect.

So we must exchange ideas, join our minds to harmoniously build this bridge. After we cross it, we can walk together. The road stretches on after the bridge, so we need to show mutual love. The road is quit long, so we need a clear path.

In the Sutra of Forty-two Sections there is such a passage. One day, the Sramana, the practitioners who followed the Buddha, were all sitting around Him. One Sramana elevated his mind to devoutly request Dharma. He asked the Buddha, “What is good? What is great?” And he asked, “What is the best? What is the greatest? What is most important?”
The Buddha replied, “Following the Way, upholding the Truth is good. Having vows that are one with the Way is great.”
Everyone, listen to this verse mindfully. Isn’t it the same as the Unity, Harmony, Mutual Love and Concerted Effort that I just mentioned? Yes, the volunteers’ organizational structure is derived from this verse. What is good? One person cannot do much, we must assemble many people. To do that, we need to build a path. If the path is long and there are many people, the procession will be long.

We know there are many troubles in the world. Teaching the rich to help the poor, helping the poor to realize their riches is one path. A journey must begin with a vow made in great sincerity. With that sincerity, we vow to do good deeds. We cannot fulfill that vow by ourselves. We need others to help mobilize everyone to walk the same path while maintaining a heart of sincerity.

So I often say, we must maintain our sincerity, integrity, trustworthiness, and honesty. If we can uphold these virtues, naturally we will be kind, compassionate, joyful, and giving. If all share the same mindset and the common goals of love, compassion, joy and giving, then this path is benevolent.

“Having vows that are one with the Way is great.” I often say we share the same vows. Tzu Chi is a large organization that needs to call on many people with the same ideals. So we help the suffering together. Every day we assemble. If our minds and vows are the same, shouldn’t our methods be? That is why we often hold training and activities. Before an event, we first outline our views and concepts, because we are a group.

So the Buddha taught us, “Following the Way, upholding the Truth is good.” We must remember to walk on this path. We must uphold the Truth. We must maintain our initial vow and sincerity. That is benevolence. Our vows must be one with the Way. If our determination and our goals conform to the path that we want to walk, that is great. The Bodhisattva-path is broad and luminous. If we can uphold our vows and follow the Way, then the Way is truly great.

The Buddha’s teachings must always be on our minds. So, please everyone always be mindful.
(Source: Da Ai TV 靜思晨語 法譬如水)
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