Explanations by Master Cheng-Yan
Subject: Repaying our Parents with the Dharma (以法增慧報親恩)
Date: January.05. 2016
“To repay our parents’ love with the worldly path of filial piety only benefits them for one lifetime and ends along with their life. To repay parents’ grace by helping their wisdom-life grow with the Dharma benefits them for thousands of kalpas and enables them to be free from the Three Realms.”
The familial bond is a wondrous kind of affection. Indeed, the affection between parents and children is a bond almost impossible to break. This is normal. However, in this modern era, when children grow up, they leave their homes; they leave their aging parents behind at home. These familial bonds have already weakened. Even if their parents are by their side, when they get old and ill, their children cannot care for them and send them to nursing homes. This is the modern parent-child relationship.
What about in ancient times? Repaying our parents’ grace was a fundamental duty. Everyone abided by the virtue of filial piety. Yet, in the Buddha-Dharma, the filial piety spoken of is great filial piety.
What is great filial piety? Great filial piety comes from thoroughly understanding the principles. Life results from the coming together of causes and conditions. Parents and children have a past cause which converged with conditions in this life, resulting in the children’s birth. But parents’ grace is great and hard to repay, because it was the causes and conditions of our parents that allowed us to come into the world. We know parents suffer much for their children, how a mother risks her life in giving birth, how she is inflicted with repeated bouts of pain, how she goes through several months of anxiety, worrying if her baby is safe in her womb and so on.
When the baby is due, after growing in the womb for [40 weeks], and she gives birth smoothly, even if the birth has no complications, it causes the mother excruciating pain. The child, too, must undergo the pain of emerging naked into the world. Both mother and child go through this struggle; both risk their lives in the act of birth.
At the start, the parents begin by thinking of a name for the young child, choosing a name which they hope the child will live up to in the future. Many parents, before a child is even born, wrack their brains to pick a name, all of which shows their hopes.
So, we must not think that a name is nothing more than an ordinary name. In fact, let us all think for a moment. What hope did our parents hold for us when they chose our names? From the time the child is born, will the child always be safe? Can the child always be safe and sound and grow into adulthood smoothly? As the child grows, they worry over how to educate him and how to help him be successful in the future. There are so many things that parents worry about. Having grown up, completed his studies and established his careers, it is then time to repay his parents’ grace. He knows he should practice filial piety to repay his parents’ grace, but no matter how filial he may be, he is still only “repaying parents’ love with the worldly path of filial piety.” He can only do this while he is by their side. He takes care of them; as our parents grow old, we should take care of them.
Confucius said that merely providing our parents with food is not filial piety. If we do not respect them, how can we call it filial piety? In taking care of children, we say we raise them. We raise dogs and cats; we raise pigs and cows. Is filial piety merely raising one’s parents? Merely providing them with food, clothing and a place to live is not what we mean by filial piety.
We must respect them. If we do not respect them, if we do not listen to and respect our parents, then we are merely raising them. What is the difference between this and raising a cat or a dog? So, in regard to filial piety, Confucius taught his disciples that parents must also be honored and respected, that we must make offerings of honor and respect. We do not merely raise them; we make offerings to them.
People normally say they make offerings by providing support [for parents]; it is not that. When we speak of making offerings, we must include honor and respect. But no matter how we honor and respect them, it “only benefits them for one lifetime and ends along with their life.” However filial we may be in enabling them to live an abundant life, eat well, dress well and live in good houses, even if we treat them with obedience and respect, they can only enjoy this in this lifetime, but the end of their lives. This is the worldly concept of filial piety. Can this kind of filial piety still be found in our modern era? Helping parents make it through their lives without afflictions, without aggravation, without anger or afflictions, are people nowadays capable of this? Always staying by our parents’ side while deeply respecting and being filial to them, is this something we can do?
Sometimes our parents may say something and [we say,] “Ah, what do you know?” It seems like parents do not know anything. This is how people can be nowadays. “Oh! Stay out of it! Isn’t having food and a place to live enough? Leave me alone; what do you know?” We often hear people say these things. They look after their parents at home, but “It is hard to keep a pleasant expression.” Parents notice their children’s facial expressions. Always being pleasant to one’s parents is difficult.
So, when asked about filial piety. Confucius replied, “It is hard to keep a pleasant expression.” What is filial piety? It is very simple. It is showing our parents a cheerful countenance. This is being filial. When we are not in a good mood, our parents will be worried. “What is the matter with you?” “Stop being so nosy! I am just worried.” This is a common occurrence.
To put our parents at ease by letting them see their children happy every day is very difficult! This is something people nowadays find hard to do. So it says, “to repay our parents’ love with the worldly path of filial piety,” which means to do our best to be filial, to put our parents at ease with the things we say, to make them happy when they see our expression, to enable them to enjoy their entire lifetime. Truly, this is already not a simple matter.
However, this still only lasts for one lifetime. The so-called great filial piety of Buddhism is not limited to a single lifetime. We hope for our parents to receive the Dharma, to be able to attain the Dharma. No matter how one enjoys life, if one does not understand the principles, it will be a wasted life. Not only will it be a wasted life, afflictions will breed more afflictions, multiply our afflictions. Even if we help our parents enjoy their lives, if they do not know the principles, it will be a wasted life. So, true filial piety means helping our parents understand the principles, giving our parents the chance to benefit others. By understanding the Buddha-Dharma, our parents, though their time still decreases day by day, can develop their wisdom-life day by day. This is the only way to truly repay parents’ grace. This great filial piety of the Buddha-Dharma is the only true way to requite our parents’ grace.
This “benefits them for thousands of kalpas.” We can help our parents understand the Buddha-Dharma in this lifetime, so they can apply the Dharma themselves. If our parents understand the Buddha-Dharma for themselves and absorb it into their hearts, if they know to put it into practice and apply the Buddha-Dharma in the world, they will create blessings and virtues. They attain blessed conditions for themselves, which will benefit them for thousands of kalpas. Only then can they liberate themselves from the Three Realms. This is truly thorough filial piety.
In fact, no matter how filial we are, life is subject to the laws of nature. We should help our parents attain Dharma-joy while there is time. This is what we must do as spiritual practitioners. We should first help them to understand the Buddha-Dharma, so the Buddha-Dharma becomes a part of their lives. “With each passing day, we draw closer to death. With each passing day, our wisdom-life increases.” The day are passing in either case. On one hand their lives are growing shorter following the laws of nature. But by their taking the Buddha-Dharma to heart and using it in their daily lives to benefit others, they can realize life’s principles. This way, their wisdom-life increases.
This is what spiritual practitioners need to immediately give their parents, the Dharma. This is how we truly fulfill our filial duties. Do you still remember? When the Buddha, Sakyamuni Buddha, left the palace for that period of time, His father King Suddhodana missed his son so much it hurt. But Prince Siddhartha wanted to accomplish this great [mission] in His life, to benefit others. So, He left lay life, engaged in spiritual practice and worked very hard in order to accomplish His great mission in life.
Eight years later He returned to the palace. When King Suddhodana heard that the prince was returning, he was overjoyed! He was moved that the prince had already attained Buddhahood. The prince had already transformed countless sentient beings and implemented the true principles of the Buddha-Dharma in the world. The entire Sakya clan was very joyful and left the city to welcome Him.
Seeing Him approaching from afar, with such a dignified and majestic Sangha, the king, his ministers, all their families and the subjects could not help but prostrate before the Buddha. The Buddha hurriedly evaded and disappeared, and it was only after King Suddhodana prostrated three times that Sakyamuni Buddha appeared and greeted His father the king. This was in accord with worldly propriety. Although He accomplish a great world-transcending mission, He also fulfilled His worldly filial duties.
Upon returning to Kapilavastu to teach the Dharma, He would sometimes teach in the palace and sometimes in the countryside. So, whether they were His relatives in the palace, the ministers or so on, everyone was able to listen to the Buddha-Dharma and draw near to the Buddha.
Even the people of the entire kingdom were able to draw near to Him. The Buddha was not merely repaying. His father’s grace and helping King Suddhodana to understand the profound meaning of the Buddha-Dharma; all his subjects could also understand the true principles of the Buddha-Dharma.
So, His return to His kingdom to spread the Dharma was very satisfactory. After returning and transforming the royal Sakya clan, many princes followed the Buddha into the monastic life. Because King Suddhodana wanted to help Him succeed in His aspiration and vow, he issued an order that if there were more than one child in a family, one of them could join the monastic order. Because of this, many princes and the children of ministers followed the Buddha to seek the Buddha-Dharma and penetrate the principles. This put the Buddha’s mind at ease.
He traveled up and down the banks of the Ganges to teach and spread the Buddha-Dharma. With the natural course of life, King Suddhodana became old. As he approached the end of his life, he suffered from painful illness. Despite being the Buddha’s father, he too suffered greatly when he became ill. Day and night, his brothers, royal relatives, ministers and others were by his side, telling him every day, “Your majesty, put your mind at ease. You have been very blessed in this lifetime. Your son became a Buddha, and He has brought benefit to all the world. As the king, you implemented the Right Dharma and treated your subjects like your children. You have done many good deeds in your lifetime and have benefited so many people, so you lifetime has been one of great blessings. You can now put your mind at ease.”
King Suddhodana replied, “This is true! Yet, my mind is still not at ease, for it is Siddhartha whom I wish to see. My son is the World-Honored One. I also wish to see Nanda, my second son, for he too has also renounced the lay life. I still wish to see them. I also wish to see my grandson Rahula. The one I want to see even more is Dronodana’s son, Ananda. “Ananda spreads the Buddha-Dharma. He has taken the Buddha-Dharma to heart and remembers it all so clearly. Ananda is one who spreads the Buddha-Dharma. Oh, why are the ones I wish to see not here now by my side! Those who were by his side said, “Your majesty, you are already so blessed. The Buddha, Nanda, Ananda and Rahula have come back to see you before, returning to the palace to teach the Dharma, returning to Kapilavastu to spread the Dharma. They are now spreading the Dharma in Rajagrha, 50 yojanas far from here. How could they possibly return to see you? You are now gravely ill. Even if they wanted to come back, they are so far away!”
That was the situation there, but in Rajagrha, Sakyamuni already knew what was happening, so one by one He called Nanda, Ananda and Rahula and told them, “The king of Kapilavastu is my father. He is Ananda’s uncle and Rahula’s grandfather. He is now nearing the end of his life. His time in this world is nearly finished. All of us must return at once to fulfill his one remaining wish.
Everyone felt, “That’s right, we must hurry back to Kapilavastu. They used their spiritual powers to speedily return to the kingdom of Kapilavastu. When everyone saw that the Buddha had returned, the kingdom’s subjects were both joyful and sad. They were joyful Sakyamuni Buddha had returned, and that Ananda, Nanda and Rahula returned along with Him. This is why they were joyful. They were sad their king was about to leave them. This was how the entire kingdom felt.
When the ministers and relatives saw them arrive, they shouted, “They’re here!” and told the king. The kind let a comforted smile appear in his face. When the Buddha arrived at King Suddhodana’s side, He reached out to take hold of His father’s hand and said, “Father, Siddhartha has returned.” “Indeed, World-Honored One, you have returned!” As King Suddhodana neared his end, the Buddha taught him the Dharma. The king took the World-Honored One’s hand and placed it upon his chest. The Buddha opened His palm to gently caress King Suddhodana’s heart, and King Suddhodana placed his hand on top of His. Everyone was moved by this expression of affection.
As the words of the Buddha-Dharma entered his heart, King Suddhodana had a serene smile on his face as he left the world. With that, Rahula and the others began weeping, for everyone was reluctant to part with him. Yet, the Buddha consoled them by telling them that birth, aging, illness and death were the natural course of life. Rahula asked, “World-Honored One! Will you allow me to be a pallbearer?” Nanda also responded, “Yes! Will you let us all pallbearer?” Ananda responded in this manner as well. The Buddha said, “Yes. To teach future sentient beings the path of filial piety, to promote the path of filial piety among all, I, too, will do my final duty as a pallbearer.”
At that time, the four heavenly kings also appeared, paid respect to the World-Honored One and said, “We four are also willing to be pallbearers.” The Buddha said to them, “You all live on the four faces of Mt. Sumeru, and each of you is a heavenly king. Why would you wish to be pallbearers?” They replied, “We have already become the Buddha’s disciples. The Buddha’s father is like one of our elders. Since the Buddha looks upon all the world’s beings as His children, by taking refuge with the Buddha, we all become the Buddha’s children. So, when the king was father to the Buddha has passed away, all the world should come to repay his grace in fathering the Buddha. If not for King Suddhodana, where would causes and conditions come from for the World-Honored One to be born in the world?”
This is the story of how the Buddha, the World-Honored One, became a pallbearer. It was all for the purpose of teaching the world to exercise great filial piety. More worldly piety is not enough. We must also give our parents the chance to come in contact with the Buddha-Dharma and to take the dharma to heart, to enable them to benefit others, form good affinities, plant good seeds and attain blessed retributions. This is true great filial piety.
Can people in the world achieve this level of filial piety? This is what everyone in the world needs to learn. Even Confucius said this. When asked, “What is filial piety?” Confucius replied with this sentence, “It is hard to keep a pleasant expression.” People can do their best to be filial, providing material resources and so on for parents so they can enjoy their old age, but in doing so, can they always show a cheerful countenance. It is difficult, isn’t it? So, practicing worldly filial piety is not simple, to say nothing of transforming our parents so they can understand the Dharma, realize the great meaning of life. This is truly not an easy matter.
So, “Repaying parents’ grace by helping their wisdom-life grow with the Dharma benefits them for thousands of kalpas and enables them to be free from the Three Realms.” This is practicing great filial piety!
It truly is not a simple matter for a Buddha to appear in the world. To become a disciple of a Buddha, for a child to achieve this kind of accomplishment, is even more difficult! So, we must be earnest in our spiritual practice. I hope everyone has the vow to attain Buddhahood in the future. Before attaining Buddhahood, we must practice the Bodhisattva-path, using the bodies our parents gave us to do and benefit others. This is repaying our parents’ grace.
The precious sutra passages says, “They made offering to, showed reverence to, paid respect to and praised Him.
They made offerings to, showed reverence to, paid respect to and praised Him. Having arrived, they made prostrations with their head at His feet. After they circumambulated the Buddha, with one mind they joined their palms together and gazed at the World-Honored One, then praised Him in verse.
In fact, offerings must be made respectfully. It is not simply placing some material goods there and thinking that is enough; it is not like that. We must also be respectful, respectful to the point of “making prostrations with our heads ay His feet [and] with one mind joining our palms together. We should be very reverent. In addition to paying our respect physically, we should be reverent while doing so. This is how we regard the Buddha.
Our parents gave us our bodies. Since they have given is these bodies, we can create blessing or create karma with them. This is all done with our bodies. However, we are also “children born from the Buddha’s speech. The Buddha taught the Dharma through His speech and through the Dharma we develop our wisdom-life. So, we should be respectful and reverent toward the Buddha. “They made offerings to, showed reverence to, paid respect to and praised Him.” When they saw the Buddha, they “made prostrations with their heads at His feet.” This action indicates great respect. They circled around Him with their palms reverently placed together. They eliminated their discursive thoughts to return having one mind. Thus, they “joined their palms together.” They waited like this for the Buddha’s teaching. They “gazed at the World-Honored One” and praised Him. They waited like this for the Buddha to teach.
The next sutra passage says, “The World-Honored One of great might and virtue, for the sake of delivering sentient beings, spent countless billions of years before finally attaining Buddhahood. You have fulfilled all Your vows. Excellent! Your auspiciousness is supreme. The World-Honored One is most extraordinary, sitting for ten small kalpas straight.”
Which Buddha is this? Great Unhindered Wisdom Superior Buddha, yes! Great Unhindered Wisdom Superior Buddha had already attained Buddhahood. The process of attaining Buddhahood took Him a very long time. Now He was a Buddha, and His demeanor was of great might and virtue. It took Him a very long time to realize the true principles of the universe, all of which are embraced in the Buddha’s ocean of enlightenment. This was accumulated over a long period of time. Thus, He was said to have great might and virtue. With such majesty, such awe-inspiring virtue, He was praised as “the World-Honored One of great might and virtue.”
So, “[He worked to] deliver sentient beings.” The World-Honored One of great might and virtue, for the sake of delivering sentient beings: The World-Honored One of great enlightenment and great and virtue, because He wished to deliver sentient beings, has mighty demeanor, prestige and dignity. He is replete with precepts, missing none, hence it says, “great might and virtue.”
The Buddha engaged in spiritual practice for the sake of sentient beings and attained Buddhahood for their sake as well. Every Buddha engaged in spiritual practice in the world solely for the sake of transforming sentient beings. So, this process of spiritual practice is to help us learn. “The World-Honored One of great might and virtue, for the sake of delivering sentient beings,” means that He engaged in spiritual practice for the sake of transforming sentient beings. So, “the World-Honored One of great enlightenment and great might and virtue” had already attained great enlightenment. He is unique in the world; there is no other. Thus He is called World-Honored One.
He wished to deliver sentient beings. Because He wished to deliver sentient beings, He engaged in spiritual practice for such a long time. When His spiritual practice was complete, it could be seen in His demeanor. What He cultivated within was expressed through His appearance. So, His demeanor majestic; He had prestige. Because sentient beings could see the majesty of the Buddha’s demeanor, it gave rise to deep faith in them.
He was also dignified, “imposing but not forceful.” This means that He was “gentle but stern.” Though He seemed very imposing, He was never fierce or harsh. He was very gentle. Yet, in His gentleness, there was great dignity. He was gentle but stern, extremely gentle.
So, “He is replete with precepts, missing none.” With all of the precepts, he practiced the Three Flawless Studies. By perfecting the Three Flawless Studies, He was flawless, replete with everything. Precepts, Samadhi and wisdom were all complete. This is why He was so dignified.
To develop an appearance of dignity like this, we must actualize the Six Paramitas in all actions. The four Practices and Three Flawless Studies must be completely without Leaks. Then we can be replete with this demeanor, with “great might and virtue.” So, “Transforming the world widely and profoundly is called great virtue.”
Transforming the world widely and profoundly is called great virtue. He subdues and captivates; He is sentient beings’ source of support. Hence it says, “the World-Honored One.”
He has great might and great virtue; with great might and virtue, He is able to “subdue and captivate,” to help sentient beings accept [teachings]. Sentient beings are very stubborn. He is able to subdue sentient beings so they can accept the Buddha’s teachings. This is why He is their source of support. Because of His might and virtue, He subdues all of the ignorance and afflictions of sentient beings so they can be supported by the Buddha’s teachings and develop their wisdom-life.
“[He] spent countless billions of years before finally attaining Buddhahood.” To be able to accomplish this takes a long period of extended practice, countless billions of years, dust-inked kalpas, long periods of time such as these. Then He had “No further causes to cultivate.” From the beginning He had constantly cultivated virtuous causes. “He passed countless billions of years,” He passed through such a very long time, a period of time impossible to calculate, “before being able to attain the ultimate truth of the fruit od Buddhahood, the state of Buddhahood.”
Because of the Buddha’s mindfulness and patience, long practicing and upholding virtuous causes, He had now attained the fruit of Buddhahood. “You have fulfilled all Your vows.”
You have fulfilled all Your vows: in the past, in the causal ground, He vowed to attain Buddhahood. Today He has attained perfect enlightenment and fulfilled all His vows. The virtue of His causal practice was fulfilled; this means His causal practice was perfected.
“In the past, in the causal ground, in the causal ground in the past, before attaining Buddhahood, He formed an aspiration to engage in spiritual practice. This is known as the “causal ground.” The process of spiritual practice is a long one He had vowed to attain Buddhahood. In the beginning He formed an aspiration, a vow to attain Buddhahood. For a long time, He did not retreat from that vow. He always advanced and never retreated for a very long period of time. “Today He has attained perfect enlightenment.” Now He had already attained it. “[He has] fulfilled all His vows.” All His vows were completed and fulfilled. So, “He had fulfilled all His vows.” The virtue of His causal practice was fulfilled; this process took a long time of constant discipline, keeping the precepts and the demeanors. With the Four Great Vows and Four Infinite Minds, He continued to advance in His causal practice. It took a long time, countless billions of kalpas, until the virtue of His causal practice was fulfilled. Then His causal practice was perfected; His virtuous causes were perfect and complete.
“Excellent! Your auspiciousness is supreme.”
Excellent! Your auspiciousness is supreme: They praised Him by saying “Excellent!” His auspiciousness is supreme. With the virtue of perfected fruition, His numerous virtues are pure and clean. Thus it says, “Excellent!” All those who see Him will be benefited, thus it says His auspiciousness is supreme.
This was truly so praiseworthy that nothing else can be praised [in comparison]. This was truly quite excellent. There was so much that was truly auspicious. This is why it says, “Excellent! Your auspiciousness is supreme.” Truly, He was supremely honored, and this is praising Him. “Your auspiciousness is supreme.”
The Buddha’s attainment of Buddhahood was auspicious for all the world. “With the virtue of perfected fruition, His numerous virtues are pure and clean. He was perfect and complete. He had realized the fruit by practicing the cause. The fruits of His virtue were numerous and pure. He returned to an extremely pure and clean state.
Thus it says, “Excellent!” This is praising the Buddha’s virtue. Such virtue was difficult to praise, so they kept on saying, “Excellent!” “All those who see Him will be benefited. Everyone who saw Him would be benefited. Just by seeing Him, one felt joyful. Just by seeing Him, affliction evaporated; they were eliminated. Upon seeing the Buddha, a disturbed mind would be calmed.
“Thus it says His auspiciousness is supreme. The World-Honored One is most extraordinary, sitting for ten small kalpas straight.”
The World-Honored One is most extraordinary, sitting for ten small kalpas straight: He is extremely rare in this world. He sat on the Vajra-throne under the Bodhi-tree and entered Vajra-like Samadhi. Once He sat, ten small kalpas passed. The Buddha-wisdom is permanent; it cannot be destroyed by arising and ceasing.
The World-Honored One was most extraordinary. He was extremely rare in this world. Once He sat, He sat for ten small kalpas, which was a very long time. “He is extremely rare in this world. He sat on the Vajra-throne under the Bodhi-tree.” Under the Bodhi-tree, He sat on the Vajra-throne “and entered Vajra(diamond)-like Samadhi. Once He sat, ten small kalpas passed.” Once He sat, He sat for ten small kalpas.
For the Buddha, in whom all principles were perfect and complete, to sit there for ten small kalpas, for one on the verge of attaining Buddhahood, this would be a very ordinary thing. He entered Samadhi and contemplated, exercising both compassion and wisdom. At this time, the Buddha’s wisdom was permanent. “It could not be destroyed by arising and ceasing.” It was not subject to arising and ceasing.
So, “It is as solid and strong as diamond, which cannot be destroyed by other objects.” Thus, it is called “Vajra(diamond)-like.” Vajrais used as an analogy. Thus He “remained firm and unmoving for ten kalpas.”
It is as solid and strong as diamond, which cannot be destroyed by other objects. Thus it is called Vajra-like. He could therefore remain firm and unmoving for ten kalpas. Its essence is solid and strong, and its function is sharp. The state of Samadhi which can end all afflictions is called Vajra-like Samadhi.
A diamond is very solid and strong, very sharp. It can cut through all afflictions. Moreover, it is solid and strong. This is like the state of Samadhi. The mind of the Buddha was pure and clean, already free from all afflictions, completely solid and strong. With the power of Samadhi, He sat for ten small kalpas straight.
Everyone, we must be truly mindful as we learn the Buddha’s Way. As long as our minds are pure and clean, we will live each day without complications. By keeping the Dharma in our hearts in daily life and by constantly benefiting others, we repay the grace of the Buddha and our parents. Because our parents gave us our bodies and the Buddha used his speech to teach us the Dharma, we are able to develop our wisdom-life. We hope that this wisdom-life, when used for our parents, will enter their heart so they can understand the Buddha-Dharma. This is giving back by transforming our parents and is great filial piety. Our parents gave birth to our body, so only by transforming our parents through our understanding of the Buddha-Dharma do we truly practice great filial piety. We should help them to develop wisdom-life. This is where we must put in great effort. So, let us always be mindful.
(Source: Da Ai TV – Wisdom at Dawn program – Explanation by Master Chen-Yen)