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【證嚴上人開示】
十行行
歡喜行 饒益行
無瞋恨行 無盡行
無癡亂行 善現行
無著行 尊重行
善法行 真實行

我們昨天第五行中,「無癡亂行」還記得吧?
我們要如何才能離開癡亂?必定要從善解的心。所以這念善解若現前,待人處事沒有一樣行不通。所以十行行中的第六,「善現行」,是由於無癡亂行,心若離開癡,就沒有亂;所以無癡亂行也是要接下來,就是要有善現行。就像我們人在走路,前腳跨出去,後面就要跟上,才能「進步」。
所以要無癡亂,就是要有善現,要時時善解現前;所以我們若能如此,在人群中就是人人同類。所以:
故能於同類中
顯現異相
於異相中
不見有異
同異圓融
互現自在

這段文字的意思就是,我們若真的能善解,心沒有癡亂,我們就會像佛說的:「無我相、無人相、無壽者相、無眾生相。」還有什麼我?我們人若有了一個我,我們會執著、癡迷現前。所以我們學佛,就要學一個,如何能夠離「我相」。
時時善解現前
心無癡亂
就能破除我執
離我相

爭執都是因為有了一個我,而且我最大,那就很驕傲了,無法合群,所以我們要和人合群,就是要離開我相,所以無我相,我們才能和人合群同類。
在人間更不能有「人相」!常常說:「時間、空間、人與人之間。」我們也是人類之ㄧ,我們怎能去分別其他的人?去分別貧富貴賤呢?貧,他也是人;富或是貴也是人,所以我們對人要尊重。
不是常常說:「以佛心看人,人人不都是佛嗎?」不分貴賤貧富都是人,我們起尊重心去愛,這也叫做同類。我們若能如此,在富貴貧賤中,富者我們要去教育他,如何啟開他的愛心,愛人的人最有福,富有財物,再加上內心有愛再增福,成為富中之富的人生;若是貧賤的人,我們更要想辦法如何來幫助他,不能輕視貧或賤。
在慶豐村,有一個家庭,母女兩人相依為命。在這個村子裡,有他們的大家族。
其實這對母女的生活十分落魄,女兒只是一個情字不順意,所以給她精神上很大的打擊,就變成精神錯亂、自我封閉,身體都不整理,就是關著。媽媽的身體又很不好,這對母女,一個家庭裡面,非常非常骯髒,囤積了多年的垃圾。
我們發現了這個個案,想去幫助她們,他們的家族親友就是拒絕;不只是拒絕,還有那種很惡言惡語:「你們是外人,你們來管我們的家族事?」所以他們就是這樣排斥。
但是,愛心綿綿密密,絕對不放棄,所以還是用心、用心,趕緊去和他們溝通,終於感動他們家族中的一個人,所以這個人被慈濟人感動了,他就對我們說:「好吧!你們去幫助她們,我們的親族朋友,若再提出刁難,由我來處理。」
終於我們慈濟人、委員,大家好幾位趕緊去了,遠遠的地方聞到一陣一陣很不好聞的味道,他們還是進去,沒看到他的女兒,只看到一個很瘦、瘦得皮包骨的老弱婦女,到底女兒在哪裡?關在裡面,足不出戶,看來全身都非常髒。這是第一次我們的探訪,要如何幫助她呢?當然第一,要先清理她們的家庭環境;第二,要和她溝通,清理她的身體;再來,就是要説服她的家族,要把這個女孩帶去就醫。
說起來次序很順,幫助上我們有次序,但是談何容易?要是沒有充分的愛,而且要有充分的勇氣,無法接近,所以一定要用時間、用耐心、用愛心去接觸。我們的志工,不論是從外地來的,或是我們本地的,大家發揮那分愛心投入,去幫她們打掃;清出好幾車、好幾車的垃圾,這種形態實在看了很感動人,不由得不從內心,生起那分感恩和敬重,這是人間的活菩薩。甚至幫老媽媽,洗好澡、換好乾淨的衣服。
在這之中,在做、在付出的過程中,原本他們的家族在無形中,內心像囤積很多垃圾,成見很大,來排斥這個家庭,遺棄這對母女,就像人人內心都有垃圾,無法容納這對母女。
看到我們愛的付出,我們在幫她們清掃的過程,同時也像在清掃,他們家族人人心中的垃圾一樣,把垃圾都掃出來,終於感動了;所以他們的家族,尤其是那位和我們互動、負責和他們家族溝通這位,後來他也是一起下去打掃。甚至他對我們的慈濟人說:「以後你們如果要居家關懷,要做這種事,記得告訴我,我一定要加入你們。」
你看,這種就是現在異類中,我們也要把他化為同類。人人心中有成見,富有的人有富有的成見,我們要如何去為他付出,去引導他。貧窮的人有貧窮的人,他自己自我封閉他的心門,或是自暴自棄、自我墮落。
看看,像這樣的家庭,我們也要把他們的家門打開,他們親族的成見,我們也要把他們的心門打開,開啟這種人類,成為「同」,有同情的心,何況是親族之緣,所以我們若有這種善現行,我們就能「於同類中,顯現異相,於異相中,不見有異」。
我們現在他的面前,讓他知道人與人之間,應該要互愛,何況你們是親族之緣,所以我們在他們這種,異類、異相、不同的境界,我們的心、他們的心,開始時是不同的境界,在不同的境界中,要把它變成同樣的境界,就是一個「愛」字。
所以才說「不見有異」,在這個異類中不見有異,他們的心境和我們的心境不同,我們可以把他們同化,就不覺得他們的心境是什麼,後來他們也和我們一樣的心境,就是有同樣一個愛心。
所以我們若打開了人相、或是壽者相、或是眾生相,這些相都打開了,我們的心胸就很開闊,就能有遼闊的心胸包容一切,所以「同異圓融,戶現自在」。
只要我們的心門打開,何況人與人之間,何況人和萬物的境界,應該我們都能同異圓融。同與不同我們都能包容,這就叫做「善現」。
以遼闊的心包容一切
人與萬物能同異圓融
就叫做「善現」

你若能用開闊的心,不論你在什麼樣的群體中,也一樣很受歡迎。何況在貧窮人群中,更是他們生命中的貴人!
在老人壽者,老人群中很愛慈濟人,我們若去養老院、老人院,「你們怎麼這麼久才來?我好想你!」看,也是一樣,善現在那裡,人人歡喜。
何況我們面對眾生萬物,我們不去傷害,我們還要去愛,尤其是我們都相信,大地眾生皆有佛性,所以我們尊重生命,我們尊重愛。
所以佛陀就對我們說:「我們要好好把我們心中的愛清淨,人之初那念本性的愛,人不要有欲,私人私我的愛欲很危險,有了私人私我的愛欲,我相、人相、眾生相、壽者相都現前了,所以見解就變成一種色的分別。」
所以《四十二章經》裡,也是有這段話:
佛言
愛欲之於人
猶執炬火逆風而行
愚者不釋炬
必有燒手之患
《四十二章經》

所以我們學佛,要時時淨化我們的心,我們的心若淨化了,心境若寧靜了,外面什麼樣的境界,都影響不了我們。假使我們私己私愛的心一起,佛陀說:「好像我們人逆風拿一支火把,風若吹過來,火一定燒到我們的手。」
就像剛才說的這個個案,這個女孩就是一個愛,愛情、愛欲太執著了,所以情不順利,就受影響變成精神錯亂。像這樣的人生,就像拿一把火,逆風燒到手。
行菩薩道,就是沒有這種私我、這種欲愛,有的愛就是要如何撫平眾生心靈的創傷?要如何去幫助,在苦難中掙扎的人生?所以同一個個案裡,我們能看出佛法,佛陀教育我們的「善現行」。
善就是無惡,我們現在每一個人群中,不論有沒有和我們同心同志願的人,不論有沒有,我們在他們的群體中,必受歡迎,一定是受歡迎的。
在富有人群中、在貧窮人群中、在惡念人群中,我們都能想辦法,如何同化他,在異類中,能不讓人感覺,我們和別人是異類,我們可以和他們同坐同行,用身行去感化他,若這樣就能「同異圓融,互現自在」。他們也自在,我們也自在;我們能再引導,那個家族的人去行善,能讓這對母女被大家族接受。
看,已經被他們接受了,這個家族能夠接受這對母女,這難道不是同異圓融嗎?這難道不是互現自在?他們歡喜,我們也很法喜。他們得到的是歡喜,我們得到的是法喜。
各位,我們學佛,真的要日日用心,在什麼樣的環境中,不影響我們的心,也不影響我們所立的志。心是愛心、志是志願,觀世音菩薩大愛的心,地藏菩薩堅定的志願。能如此,我們無論在什麼地方,都叫做「善現行」。
所以我們大家要時時多用心。
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Lecturer: Master Zheng-Yan
Subject: The Six Practices: Ten Actions Part 6(六行~十行六)

The Ten Actions:
Joyful Service, Benefiting Others, Never-resenting, Unlimited Service, Non-confusion, Skillful Manifestation, Non-attachment, Respect, Good Teachings, Truth
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The fifth practice of the Ten Actions is the Practice of Non-confusion. Do you remember how to be free from confusion? It must begin with an understanding heart. When understanding manifests, all matters and relationships become easy. The sixth is the Practice of the Ten Actions is the Practice of Skillful Manifestation. With the Practice of Non-confusion, the mind is freed from ignorance and delusion. Following the practice of Non-confusion is the practice of Skillful Manifestation.

When walking, you step forth with one foot, and the other follows. Only then can you advance. To achieve Non-confusion, we need Skillful Manifestation to always have a deep understanding. If we can achieve this, we can get along with everyone. Thus, “When there are differences among a group one does not see the differences. Differences or not, one remains in perfect harmony and is at ease.”

This passage says that if we are understanding and free from confusion then just as the Buddha said, “There are no Views of self, People, Sentient Beings, or a Soul.” So what Self is there? When we cling to the idea of Self, attachments and ignorance arise. When we learn Buddhism, we learn how to be free from the View of Self.

Constantly be understanding. Remain free from ignorance and confusion. In doing so, you can break the attachment to Self and View of Self.

All conflicts are due to the Self. We see “I”, the Self, as most important, thus we become conceited and unable get along with others. To be congenial with others, we must stop clinging to the Self. Only without the View of Self can we be harmonious with others. We must not have View of People either. I often talk about time, space and human relationships. We are all part of mankind, so how can we discriminate against others as poor, rich, noble or lowly? The poor are also people, same as the rich and noble. So we have to respect them.

I always say that when we see others with our Buddha-mind then everyone is a Buddha. Whether noble, lowly, poor or rich, all are people. We should respect and love them. We should uphold equality. If we can do this, then we can work with the wealthy or the poor. We have to educate the rich and spark their sense of kindness. Those with love are most blessed. Thus, with material wealth and love in their hearts, blessings accumulate. They become the rich among the rich. As for the poor, we must try hard to help them and not look down upon them. In Qlingfeng Vullage, there was a small family consisting of a mother and her daughter. Their large extended family also lived in the village, but the two lived alone in horrid conditions. The daughter got out of a bad relationship that caused her to suffer severe psychological stress. As a result, she became mentally ill and isolated. She could not take care of herself, so her mother looked her up. The mother also suffered from bad health. They lived in a filthy house filled with garbage that accumulated over several years.

When we discovered them and wanted to help, the extended family would not allow it. Not only did they object, they also spoke harshly, saying that we were outsiders interfering with their personal affairs. They rejected our help, but our love was unceasing and we did not give up. We tried harder to communicate with the family, and we finally got through to one of them. He told us, “Fine, you can help. If my other family members cause trouble, I will take care of it.” So Tzu Chi volunteers and commissions wasted no time.

Even from afar they could smell a very foul odor. They went inside anyway, but they did not see the daughter. They only saw a very weak, bony old woman. Where was the daughter? She was still locked up and never went outside. She was very dirty all over. That was during our first visit. How could we help her? Naturally, we first clean their living environment, and then communicate with her and wash her body. Finally, we convince the family to get her some medical help as well. It seemed logical to provide aid though carrying it out was not easy. Without sufficient love and courage, one could not even approach them. It required time, patience, and a lot of love to interact with them. Our volunteers whether from other areas or from the local community, all fostered loving devotion. They helped clean up the house, removing truckloads of garbage. It was a very moving scene. One could not help but have a sense of gratitude and respect.

They were all living Bodhisattvas. They even bathed the mother and changed her clothes. In the process of h helping, we found out that the extended family had built-up hard feelings and resentment toward the mother and daughter, and had abandoned them. Their minds were so negative they could not accept the mother and daughter. But seeing us give love and help clean the house cleansed their toxic minds as well. They were deeply moved. So this family, especially the member who acted as the liaison, also helped clean the house. He even said to Tzu Chi volunteers, “If you visit care recipients in the future, please remember to let me know. I’ll definitely join you.”

You see, that is example of sparking change on others so they can join us. Everyone has prejudices. Some of the rich have their own bias, so we put forth efforts to guide them. The poor have the problem of closing their hearts, living self-despairing or self-destructive lives, just like this family. We had to open their doors to help them. This family had issues, so we needed to open the door to their hearts and spark their sympathy, especially toward their own family. If we have this kind of Skillful Manifestation, then “when there are differences among a group, one does not see the differences.” We appeared before the family, letting them know that we should all love others, especially those related to us. When there are differences in ethnicity, appearance or condition, then at first minds are different. In order to transform different states of mind to be the same, we need love in our hearts.

As I said earlier, “one does not see differences even when there are differences.” Although their mental states were different from ours, we could help them change so that, we do not feel the differences. Later on, they had the same mindset as us. So with love, we transcended the View of People, View of a Soul, and View of Sentient Beings. When transcending all these fixations, our minds and hearts are wide open and can embrace everything. So “we remain in perfect harmony and is at ease. If we opens our heart.” Among people and with all phenomena, we should remain in harmony regardless of difference and embrace all. This is called Skillful Manifestation.

Have a broad and spacious heart to accommodate everyone. Treat all people and things with equality. This is the Practice of Skillful Manifestation.

If you have a spacious heart, no matter what type of group you enter, you will be welcomed. Moreover, among the poor, you will be their benefactor. Tzu Chi volunteers are very well-loved among the elderly. When we visit convalescent homes, they say, “What took you so long? We miss you.” You see, this is also Skillful Manifestation, and everyone is happy. With all sentient beings, not only should we not cause harm, we must love them. We believe that all beings possess Buddha-nature. So we respect and love all forms of life. Thus, the Buddha said we must carefully purify the love in our hearts, the love that is our innate mature. We should therefore eliminate desires. Selfish love and desires are very dangerous. With such desires, the Views of Self, People, Sentient Beings, and a Soul all arise. That is how our views become discriminatory.

In the Sutra of Forty-two Chapters there is a passage in which the Buddha said, “He who indulges in desires is walking against the wind with a torch. His hand will surely be burnt.”

So when learning Buddhism, we have to constantly purify our minds. When our minds are purified and calm external conditions will not affect us. When selfish love arises, as the Buddha said, it is like holding a torch against the wind. When the wind blows against us, the fire will surely burn our hand. Like in the case I just mentioned, the girl was affected by love. She was too attached to romantic love and desires. So when her love life had problems, she was traumatized and become ill. That kind of life is like holding a torch against the wind, and burning one’s hand.

The Bodhisattvas-path does not contain selfish or desirous love. A Bodhisattva’s love is to heal the wounds of sentient beings and to help those who are suffering. So in a single charity case, we can see the Buddha-Dharma, the Skillful Manifestation taught by the Buddha. “Skillful” means without evil. Whenever we are among a group of people, whether they share our aspirations or not, as we interact with them, we will certainly be welcomed. Whether we are among the rich, among the poor, or among those with evil thoughts, we can always help them change. Although we are different, if we do not let others sense the dissimilarities, we can get along with everyone and change their hearts with our actions. As such, “one remains in perfect harmony and is at ease.” They are at ease, and we are also at ease. We gradually led that family to do good and accept the mother and daughter. The family now accepts the mother and daughter. Isn’t that “remaining in harmony and ease despite differences?” They are joyous and we have Dharma-joy. They have obtained happiness, and we have obtained Dharma-joy.

Everyone, when we learn Buddhism, we should be mindful every day. The external environment should not affect our minds and convictions. We should possess the loving kindness of Guan Yin, and the unwavering conviction of Earth Treasury Bodhisattva. If we can do this, then we can practice Skillful Manifestation anywhere. Everyone always be mindful.
(Source: Da Ai TV 靜思晨語 法譬如水)
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